Step 1: Find your pelvic floor muscles
The next time you are peeing, focus on stopping the flow of urine midway through emptying your bladder. Stop the flow for a second or two, then relax and finish emptying as normal. This is a great way to help you identify your pelvic floor muscles if you’re having trouble finding them, but this is not a pelvic floor exercise, so only do this if you need to understand which muscles to engage.
Step 2: Work on your technique
The best way to most effectively engage your pelvic floor while pregnant is to lie on your side. This allows you to concentrate on strengthening the muscles whilst avoiding the extra degree of difficulty that gravity throws in when you’re sitting or standing.
The technique behind pelvic floor exercises isn’t difficult, but it does take a bit of practice before you can perform it effectively.
Start by tightening the muscles gently so you can feel the pelvic floor muscles lifting and drawing together and squeeze for as long as you can – you might only be able to hold for a couple of seconds , or you might make it to five seconds – then relax for the amount of time. And repeat.
Be careful not to tighten the muscles in your abdomen, thighs or buttocks. You should only engage the pelvic floor muscles and try not to hold your breath as you do it. If you’re in any doubt about your technique, it’s a good idea to contact a healthcare professional for advice.
Step 3: Try some pelvic floor exercises
There are a few different pelvic floor exercises you can try. If you can, try to do three pelvic floor exercises a day and mix up the types to work your pelvic floor in different ways.
- The simple clench
To isolate the pelvic floor muscles, start by clenching the muscles around your back passage. Then continue clenching around the vagina and urethra. Keep clenching as if you are holding something in your vagina, while keeping your buttocks and thighs relaxed. Keep clenching for two seconds, then relax for two seconds. Repeat as many times as you can.
- The strength clench
Clench the pelvic floor muscles as tightly as you can. See if you can hold for five seconds, relax for five seconds and repeat that 5-10 times. It’s OK if you can’t do this straight away; how long you can hold for will depend on how strong your pelvic floor is. Start small and build up slowly.
- The endurance clench
Clench with medium tightness for as long as possible. Try to hold the clench for 60 seconds. Do this each time you’ve finished a session of strength clenching.
- Quickness clench
Clench as hard as you can for two seconds. Then relax for two seconds. Repeat this 5-10 times. It’s a great one to try if you feel a sneeze, cough or laugh coming to avoid a leak.